“My boyfriend has a detailed document about leaving ‘her’ and I just realized I might be the villain in my own story..”

I (32F) never thought I’d be that person who snoops through their partner’s laptop. But here I am, sitting on my bathroom floor, and I honestly don’t know if my relationship is over or if I just made the biggest mistake of my life. My boyfriend Jake (34M) and I have been together for almost…

How to Leave Someone with Depression Safely: Guide to an Impossible Situation

You’re carrying the weight of an impossible decision, aren’t you? The relationship isn’t working – maybe you’ve grown apart, fallen out of love, or realized you’re simply incompatible – but your partner is struggling with depression, and the thought of leaving them feels like abandoning someone who’s drowning. You’re torn between your own need for…